Someone posted this today and it naturally made me think. I have no problem with dating a bigger guy. But not obese. Kinda like a dad bod or an equivalent of curvy on women. In fact I’ve had crushes on a couple of guys who were big guys because they were so funny and nice that looks weren’t the most important thing. I know when I’ve said i care more about personality than looks before people have given me those raised eyebrows disbelieving “yeah right” kind of look but it’s true. If you are funny and kind and we can have an interesting chat then I’m happy, regardless of whether you are a bigger guy or not. So I would say I don’t have double standards at all.